10.20.2010

Blip.

This is Abby 
(and her husband, Tiff).
She is DRL's god-mother
for all intents
and purposes.

Elena calls her "Gramma Abby."
Stella will too.
As soon as she can talk, anyway.

This summer,
Tiff and Abby had planned a trip to visit us.
Then we found out they wouldn't be coming until Fall.
At least.
Abby,
you see,
had been diagnosed with breast cancer.

But before I had time to be scared
worry
cry
DRL and I received an email
from Tiff.

She was going to have a double mastectomy.
Maybe some chemo or radiation.
The prognosis was amazing.

And as Abby thought about it
more and more
a funny idea popped into her head,
"why let cancer ruin my summer?
I didn't get to choose to this disease
but I can choose how I fight it."

So she talked to her doctors,
and the decision was made.

A double mastectomy.
No reconstruction.
No Chemo.
No Radiation.
No 
Ruined
Summer.

The surgery was a success.
Almost as soon as she was diagnosed
she was
cured.

Cancer Free.

Boobless,
yes,
but cancer free.

Susan G. Komen may not have been able to save
Abby's Ta-Ta's
but with early detection
modern medical technology
and a patient with a finger 
ok, well, a fist, really
on the pulse of her own care
her cancer was a blip on the radar screen of her life.

And okay,
maybe I lied a little.
I did cry. 
But only for a moment,
when I first heard the news.

And then I talked to Abby
I heard her voice.
There was never 
any
fear.

Not even a trace of it.

For one ounce of her bravery
I would pay a king's ransom.

Abby,
We love you.
As your granddaughter would say,
Forever and ever.
And still a day more.

We're glad it was a blip.
We're happy you're here.
Really
really
happy.

And we're glad you got to visit us in Austin.
We had an amazing time.

Cheers,
A

3 comments:

  1. I love you, I love your Bloggity, I love your amazing husband and daughters! Being grandma, mom, godmother, fairy godmother and a really good friend is what makes my world go around. Can't let a little blip on the screen like breast cancer get in my way. With the strength I get from the love of my family I can beat anything! Thank you for taking the time to tell my story so well. Love you.

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